Date: December 15, 2025
Relationships in human life are built based on Kinship, Affinity, Affiliation, and Connection.
Kinship have to be maintained. Affinity have to be sustained. Affiliation have to be made. Connection is made by the way.
There are 2 most important characters in life based on Kinship;
Blood relatives (أو۟لوا۟ ٱلْأَرْحَمِ).
They have the entitlement to each other’s time and resources.
Parents (وَٰلِدَيْنِ).
(a). Spending your time and resources on them is a better way.
(b). Be kind to them.
There are 2 very important characters in life based on Affinity;
Those who guide you in your matters (ٱلْقْرْبَىٰ).
(a). They have the right to your time and resources.
(b). Spending your time and resources on them is a better way.
(c). Giving your time and resources to them is a good deed.
(d). Be kind to them.
Those who entrust their body, desires, and money to you (ٱلْيَتَـٰمَىٰ).
(a). Spending your time and resources on them is a better way.
(b). Giving your time and resources to them is a good deed.
(c). Be kind to them.
There are 2 important characters in life based on Affiliation;
Those who live in your house / come to your house (ٱلْمَسَــكِينَ).
Those who accompany you in life’s journey/who cooperate in your business (ٱبْنَ ٱلسَّبِيلِ).
(a). They have the right to your time and resources.
(b). Spending your time and resources on them is a better way.
(c). Giving your time and resources to them is a good deed.
(d). Be kind to them.
(e). It is obligatory to give charity to them.
There are 10 normal characters in life based on Connection;
Those who ask you for help (ٱلسَّآئِلِينَ).
Giving them your time and resources is a good deed.
Those who are in trouble (فِى ٱلرِّقَابِ).
(a). Giving them your time and resources is a good deed.
(b). It is obligatory to give charity to them.
Those who are thinkers (فُقَرَآءِ).
It is obligatory to give charity to them.
Those who work for those who live in your house / come to your house (ٱلْعَـٰمِلِينَ عَلَيْهَا).
It is obligatory to give charity to them.
Those whose hearts you want to control (ٱلْمُؤَلَّفَةِ قُلُوبُهُمْ).
It is obligatory to give charity to them.
Those who are in debt (ٱلْغَـٰرِمِينَ).
It is obligatory to give charity to them.
Those neighbours who care and cooperate with you in neighbourhood affairs (ٱلْجَارِ ذِى ٱلْقُرْبَىٰ).
Be kind to them.
Those neighbours who live by your next-door (ٱلْجَارِ ٱلْجُنُبِ).
Be kind to them.
Those who are sitting by your side (ٱلصَّاحِبِ بِٱلْجَنۢبِ).
Be kind to them.
Those who are your subordinates (مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَـٰنُكُمْ).
Be kind to them.
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